I cannot tell you how many times I've been brushed off by my friends because of their boyfriends. I am single right now, but whenever I'm with someone, I never bail out on other people. just because you have a boyfriend it doesn't mean you have to make him the center of your life. but I'm rambling, aren't I?
mostly I just wanted to say that this is a great idea for a community, especially when there are so many "I love my boyfriend" and "long distance relationships" (etc. .) communities out there.
I've never really understood every ones need for a boyfriend all the time.